Using a vibrator

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Question

Dear Fanny, my girlfriend has asked me if I’d mind it if she brought a dildo into our sex life. I’m not sure how I feel about this.
Dan

Answer

Do not fear the dildo Dan!  It is no way shape or form a replacement for your little fella (or large as the case may be).  I understand why men might be put off by vibrators, they can look quite intimidating for a start, often in neon bright colours with orgasmic little gismos attached here there and everywhere, it must boggle your mind.

The fact that you girlfriend has asked your permission speaks volumes about your relationship.  She’s obviously a sexually adventurous girl and I encourage you to embrace that, don’t be afraid to ask her what she wants.   Men around the globe envy you the chance to play and experiment with a sexually enquiring young lady!

Ok so now for the technical part.  How much of a role the vibrator plays in your sex life is between you and your girlfriend and how much you both feel comfortable with.  I’d recommend starting with teasing foreplay, using the vibrations against the nipples, pussy lips etc.  Building up to a little (or alot of) clitoral stimulation during sex.  The more you play with it, the more comfortable you’ll become and your confidence will grow.  You’ll be having full on DP fun before ya know it!  With that in mind I suggest you start small and work your way up…

They come under the heading sex TOYS for a reason dude, they’re fun!  Get online and order one today, enrich your sex life, I promise you won’t regret it.

If you wanna play try www.PornStarToys.co.uk

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