Question:
Hey Fanny, I’m 20 years old and my step mom is 34. My Dad met her about 4 years ago. I’ve had girlfriends, but I don’t feel about them the way I feel about her. She’s so hot and I fantasise about her 24/7, I’m obsessed. No one can compare to her. I love my Dad and I don’t want to hurt him, but I want her, I don’t know how she feels about me, but I want to tell her how I feel. What turns me on even more is that she has a dirty side to her, I know she has naughty toys in her drawers. I have a feeling she knows that I’m sexually attracted to her but she won’t say anything. Is there anyway I can get her off my mind?
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Answer:
Well well, how scandalous?! Illicit desire is sometimes the most exciting form of fantasy, but you need to be sure you keep a grip on the reality of the situation. This is your Dad’s partner, they obviously have feelings for each other and you need to keep that in the forefront of your mind no matter how hot this woman is!
What happens if you divulge how you feel and your stepmum freaks out? Or what happens if she returns your feelings?? Either scenario has potentially harmful consequences, both to you and you Dad. I’m presuming you still live at home with your Dad and stepmum, perhaps taking a break away from being in such close quarters to her and/or get out with your friends, try and meet other girls maybe?
You can be consumed by a person you believe you’re supposed to be with (or just reeeeally want to bed), but what if it’s just the fantasy of the forbidden fruit that is so appealing to you? Is the fruit worth risking your relationship with your Dad and possibly your stepmum too?
My advice is to get out more, distract yourself whenever and however possible. Think about every possible outcome and how you would feel about them before you make any decision to follow through with your feelings. There’s a whole world of fanny out there my friend, you just have to find the right one for you…good luck and stay sexy! x
