Question
Dear Fanny, I’m a big fan of porn that show girls squirting, but a friend recently told me it’s just p*ss! Is this true??
Derek
Answer
Hey Derek, much myth and debate surrounds squirting. Is it pee? Is it female ejaculate? Can all women do it? Not even the experts can decide!
Firstly let me explain (for anyone who may have been living on the moon for the past 30 years) squirting is (prepare for the least erotic explanation of the female orgasm EVER) the expulsion of fluid from in and around the urethra (pee pee hole) during an orgasm. This isn’t to be confused with gushing, which is the pouring of juices from inside the lady’s vajayjay (usually thicker in consistency).
Now, the most common myth around squirting is that the liquid being squirted is in fact urine. It’s not, though some experts still disagree, the most recent tests (plus the ones carried out by yours truly) confirm that the fluid comes from the skene’s gland…I know, I know! That’s not sexy, but you asked! It’s actually sweet in taste due to the glucose content.
A couple of other myths…All women can do it, it just takes practice. False. Every woman is different and not all can achieve squirting, no matter how skilled the partner.
Women who squirt achieve a greater orgasm than those who don’t. False. As fun as squirting is women can achieve just as strong and hard an orgasm without it.
So no, it isn’t p*ss and in case you were wondering (I know you were) here’s how you can best achieve it… OK, firstly, take your time, it isn’t a race. Relaxation is key, make sure your partner is horny as anything, but chilled to boot. Lube, lube, lube! Stroke the G-spot, firmly with one finger (If you haven’t read up about the G-spot yet check here https://www.fannyhunter.co.uk/featured/is-the-g-spot-real ). After about 10-15 minutes of stroking, your girl should be in quite a mess already! Here’s where you want to push her into ‘overdrive’ use two fingers now and use the palm of your hand against her clit at the same time. Build speed and momentum….and pow! The job should be a gooden.
Remember she might not be a squirter, but still, you’re both gonna have fun no matter what right?