Question
Hi Fanny, A friend of mine recently had a ‘Thai massage’ I’ve read a few things about prostate massage giving amazing orgasms. I’ve always thought it was a bit…gay and wouldn’t even know where to find it. Help?
Anon
Answer
You’ve asked the right girl, prostate massage just happens to be a speciality of mine! I love the intense effect it has on a man. The first point I’d like to stress is that it’s perfectly normal to enjoy anal play/stimulation and it certainly doesn’t mean you have homesexual tendencies!
Sooooo many men refuse to even consider exploring their own limits because of the stigma attached to anal play. It frustrates and saddens me. You have been blessed with the gift of a G-Spot, it just happens to be in your arse, get over it!!
Right now I’ve got that out…let’s get to the how to. The prostate gland is located just inside the rectum and has been described as feeling like a small walnut. Some men find it easy to milk their own prostate ‘manually’ by using a lubed finger inside their arse and reaching towards the base of their cock in a ‘come here’ motion. If you can reach it yourself you will feel the difference in sensation immediately.
If you can’t quite reach it yourself and don’t have a willing volunteer then I recommend a prostate massager (see my Top 10 Sex Toys for Him https://www.fannyhunter.co.uk/dogma/top-10-sex-toys-for-him) which is purposely designed for ease and comfort. When you find it, either with your finger or with a toy, just gently massage until…BINGO!
You can never use too much lube and if you don’t wear gloves or use a condom over your toy, then just be sure you do a thorough job of cleaning with something antibacterial afterwards!
Always exercise caution during anal play, you don’t want to cause yourself a mischief! Done carefully and done right, prostate massage can lead to a longer lasting, far more intense male orgasm. Have fun!
