Question
Dear Fanny, Please help. I just started Uni and have been on a few dates with some really hot girls. I’m not a virgin, but I don’t last very long in bed, it’s really embarrassing and I don’t know what to do.
Tony
Answer
Ahhhh Tony, I feel your pain. You’re not alone dude, thousands of men, of all ages, suffer from premature ejaculation, though it does tend to lessen with age. The older you get the easier you’ll be able to ‘control’ your release.
There are some forms of medical treatment available for really severe cases, but I wouldn’t recommend you go down that route just yet.
I presume you’ve heard of ‘never go on a date with a loaded weapon’? Masturbating before sex can help you last longer. Although you should try and use masturbation as kind of a ‘practice run’. The longer you can make your solo sessions last, the longer you’re likely to last in bed, think of it as a training technique.
There’s also the good old distraction technique, try thinking about something else during the act, something that isn’t likely to make you cum, like this season’s footy stats. But go careful, you don’t want to lose your flow altogether!
My final words of wisdom… never leave a girl hanging! As anxious and frustrated as you might feel, your partner is likely to be just as frustrated, after all at least you’ve cum! Perhaps try and make her cum during foreplay, to take some pressure off yourself before the main event. If she hasn’t reached orgasm yet, then be a gent, even if ‘Little Tony’ is spent, you still have two hands, a mouth and a world of other options, be creative…
