Question
Dear Fanny, I love giving and receiving oral sex, but my girlfriend doesn’t seem as keen, how do I know if I’m doing it right and how do I get her to go down more often?
Greg
Answer
Well hello there Greg, a man after my own heart. Ok, let’s deal with one thing at a time. First up, are you doing it right? Well, in my experience mouth + pussy = orgasm, it’s harder to get it wrong than get it right! Obviously all women are built differently, although it’s more common for a woman not to be able to achieve orgasm vaginally, some women can’t orgasm through oral sex alone, but that doesn’t necessarily mean she doesn’t enjoy it!
Ask her what she likes, if she’s a little coy about discussing it then try to read her reactions to your efforts. Body language and an appreciative moan or groan, any positive reaction at all means whatever you’re doing she likes, so keep doing it!
As for getting her to go down on you more often? That my friend is one of the age old questions of man. My advice? Patience and lots of positive reinforcement. Encourage her, flatter her. Showing frustration or impatience with her will only cause self-doubt and insecurities. Make her feel like a confident, wanton Falletio Sex Goddess and relish the feeling of giving you pleasure. The more she enjoys the experience, the more likely she is to do it on a more regular basis. Good luck and happy eating!
