Humiliation

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Question:

Hi Fanny, I know you probably think I’m weird, but I love being humiliated and laughed at during sex. I don’t know how to explain how or why it turns me on so much or how to stop it and whenever I ask a girl for what I want they think I’m crazy. It’s the only thing that leaves me feeling satisfied after I’ve cum and I don’t know what to do.

H, Midlands.

Answer:

Hey H, of course I don’t think you weird! We all have our kinks and yours isn’t as rare as you might think. A lot of men are into the fetish of humiliation. It is usually paired with having a small cock and men become aroused by being told they’re not good enough or able enough to fuck a woman or please her in anyway.

Being made to feel worthless, pathetic and humiliated is all good if it makes you feel good, if you get what I’m saying? I know the whole point of it is to be made to feel like shit, but as long as it’s erotic to you, turns you on and makes you smile afterwards then you’re not hurting anyone and it’s no one’s place to judge you for your kinky preference.

The only time it might be a concern would be if it’s having a detrimental effect on your self-esteem outside of the bedroom and only you can be the judge of that. Don’t sacrifice your well being to keep your cock happy. Keep yourself strong and happy and know that you enjoy being humiliated, it turns you on, excites you, but the words being said to you are part of the role play, not fact.

As for finding a girl who’s into it too or breaking the news of your fetish to a new girlfriend – well there are a multitude of women offering their services online (email me at fanny@fannyhunter.co.uk and I’ll gladly hook you up ;)) and for prospective girlfriends my advice is always honesty.

Maybe not a first date kind of conversation, but if it’s something that’s a part of your make up, not a passing phase and something you’re serious about then a) she deserves to know and b) you deserve to find someone who can satisfy/accept your needs.

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