Question:
Dear Fanny, I’m a 40 year old man and I like wearing women’s clothes. I’m in a long term relationship with a woman and I’m not gay. I just love how I feel when I dress and act like a woman. My partner has no idea and I’m nervous about what would happen if she ever found out. This isn’t new to me, it’s something I’ve been hiding for years and I’ve become quite good at it. I would love to know your thoughts.
Kindest Regards,
V
Answer:
Hey there V! Men dressing En Femme has been about for centuries and I believe it’s far more acceptable in the eyes of the wider public now a days, though I understand your dilemma. It must be difficult to hide something that is such a large part of your personality from someone so close to you. I can’t say whether your partner will run for the hills or embrace your alter ego with open arms, you need to assess that for yourself and how you might feel in either situation. Do you find it so exciting because it’s a secret? Or is the secrecy starting to hinder your enjoyment of cross dressing?
I’m sure you’re aware there are literally hundreds of websites that cater to guys just like you, where you can chat with like minded people, crossdressers and their admirers. There are also sites available for women with cross dressing partners. If you ever do decide to share your passion with your partner it might be worth checking a few of them out beforehand/after, http://www.ladylike.org.uk/ is a good one.
The most important thing is that you’re happy with you, cross dressing is a fun, sexually liberating and eccentric hobby/way of life for so many. You’re not alone and I’m sure you’ll find help, support and great friends from the crossdressing/TV/Tgirl/TS community if you choose to reach out for it. In the mean time you’ve always got Fanny! I hope you find happiness in whatever you decide. Stay Sexy, Fanny x
