Question:
Dear Fanny, I love big girls, the bigger the better. My last girlfriend was HUGE and I loved it, but when she lost weight I just wasn’t attracted to her anymore and we split. I’m not like one of those feeder types, I just like what I like and I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that. My friends take the mick out of me. When I meet my next girlfriend how do I tell her I want her to stay big?
G from Newcastle
Answer:
Hi G, big girls are beautiful!! Well to me it’s pretty simple, women are gorgeous, all of ‘em! All ages, shapes, sizes, skin tones on Planet Fanny all women are revered. So you’re a chubby chaser, big deal! You know what turns you on and you’re happy with it, don’t pay any mind to what your friends say.
When you meet a woman you’re attracted to I advise you to be honest with her from the beginning. There are no guarantees, even if she has no plans to shift the weight, you never know what the future may hold. There are hundreds of couples who struggle with staying attracted to a partner who puts weight ON, your scenario isn’t as common, but it works on the same basis.
A long term, loving relationship is about respect, commitment, loving a person for who they are blah, blah. But if you’re not happy then how can you make your partner happy? It’s not fair on either party so I think you did the right thing with your ex.
Maybe in time you will meet someone you fall hard for and it won’t matter to you what size they are. If not then I hope you find a thick waisted beauty who’ll maintain her chubbiness and you’ll both be very happy together!
